If it were easy to just 'tune', then of course this would be the way to go, but AFAIK, the TCUs aren't 'tunable' .. hence why something like the compushift product exists.
My experience with the swap to the V8 TCU is like a 'poor mans 6 speed'.
As I said earlier, I use it held back in third most of the time, even at 60k/h. Only if I know I can sit at 70 for an extended time(at least a few minutes), hit 4th.
The early lockup in 3rd, and the strong pull of the mapped TD5 are a perfect match. Not quite as strong as the V8 down low, but maybe 90% or so.
IIRC, one major gripe with the std ECU in bros tuned TD5 was the 2nd to 3rd shift point, always felt far too delayed when stuck in heavy traffic that hardly moved at 30-40k/h.
In fact as I recall, all gears just held on too long.
The reason to plug in a V8 TCU would be ease and cost of getting one. V8 D2's are easier to find at the local wrecking yards (u pull types) ... TD5s at those wreckers .. I've only ever seen one, once in about 5 years(pick-a-part) .. lots of V8s.
I dunno how much they sell for, but from other bits I've recently got from pick-a-part, I'd guess about $30 or so.
Compushift would be nice, as it allows user preferred tuneability .. but at over $1K!!
If you don't use cruise control, just swap to a V8 TCU and you'll immediately feel the difference. But if you use CC a lot like I do, if it turns out like my experience, you'll hate it.

