I did this today like advised:
I can confirm that when you touch the yellow wire to either the black or green you can feel all 4 relays clicking. Although ‘thumping’ is probably a better term as they are loud. 
So all 4 relays work - yay!
Next I connected it to the winch like so:
And I connected up the yellow to the black 1st and the green 2nd. The winch drum goes both ways!
Obviously I’ll need a ‘winch in & out switch’ which the yellow will be the common and the black and green will go on opposite poles. That sounds easy enough. The switch will be dash mounted not remote. 
The solenoid bank will go under my special dual battery holder which is in the same location of the main TD5 starting battery. Another 3 questions
1) 3b&s or 0 gauge wire from solenoids to winch
2) I’m adding an isolator relay/solenoid to cut main power. What size should I buy?  
3 Also what size fuse between battery  & solenoids?  10 amp between battery and main power relay should suffice?
 
			
		
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