You'll notice in the tow-pro instructions 2.4 
Testing your Install it says that you test it by pressing the manual overide button. There are two things you should see.  A. The vehicle brake lights should illuminate, But they will only illuminate for you if your diode is located correctly in the circuit. B. It also says that the trailer brake light output should illuminate the test lamp.  That is wrong. They've made a mistake with the manual.  It should say to connect the test lamp to the trailer brake output. (Ie. Wire the test lamp to pin 5 and not pin 6 as the instruction imply).  Turn the dial up a bit when you do this because a setting of zero will send zero current through the test lamp, and nothing will show.
The earlier description by Sniegy for diode location was updated in this 
short post. .  That's where you want the diode.
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