Thread: Embarrassment

Pull yourself together Jason, you need your head together for when Karen needs you to help. If she goes into hospital you'll have to go back to look after the kids. At the moment it's about Karen, not you, so stop thinking about how bad it is and think about how you can make life better for her. Its a big ask, but not beyond your capablities. If you need back-up you can call/text any of us. We're Aussies, so we stand by our mates.

Well guys i'm back home to help & karen feels real bad as she only wants me here cause she needs help..
Haven't been home to long they not here gone to footy wasn't happy that karen took him & wouldn't let me organise for the coach to take him i couldn't get back here in time before they left...
Doesn't look like the kids have done to much..Just going to clean up a bit & i will go walk the pamphlet we got on thursday. . . .

Originally Posted by banjo

Well guys i'm back home to help & karen feels real bad as she only wants me here cause she needs help..
Haven't been home to long they not here gone to footy wasn't happy that karen took him & wouldn't let me organise for the coach to take him i couldn't get back here in time before they left...
Doesn't look like the kids have done to much..Just going to clean up a bit & i will go walk the pamphlet we got on thursday. . . .

Good on you Banjo, you've stepped up to the plate like a man. Do as much as you can for Karen, without getting under her feet or following her like a lost puppy. It's a delicate balancing act, after all she's only a female. Give her space and let her rest, especially mentally and emotionally. Be the rock for her that she has been for you. She put no pressure on you for many years.
Say hello to Karen for me please, your both in my thoughts.

OK Karen got home ok then we walk up & voted i don't have to but it did...

I took cody down to the cheap shop to get some stuff for a school project come home .Then he says we forgot white paint so off again down the road asked karen if she wanted some lunch as she hasn't eatin aswell so i got some hot chips & a plutopup for my self chips where for Karen...

Just back & the phone rings its mum wanting to know how things where she asked if everything was good back to normal i said no they still the same & i am here to HELP Karen .. The i got well for how long said sharp as if to say what ya coming back . .

She doesn't want the resposability of me & my crapy world life problem..

But in the next breath well your allways welcome here you dont have to ring just turn up, said real dull like crap you can come back if ya have to i spose . . . .

See what i meen Karen is the only person on this earth to love care for me..

I could go back to the oldmans that would be great not more mental **** on me there & the mental sex crap & just the sex crap ..

Not to worried about it all i want to do is make Karen well & happy that is my first concern at the moment . .

Just stay where you are keep on being positive and it will come around as time heals.

OH yeah i gots a phone call today from someone on here that i haven't spoke to on the phone before ..Was good well i thought i went alright didn't get nervous or stutta so thats a bonus ..IT was V8Ian . . . .

Karen is asleep on the lounge she doesn't want to goto bed just yet. Cody's on there computer & fred's in the shower . We have done the dishes nothing on the telly to watch so I's jumped on here but everyone must be off having tea or out.......

Was telling the kids once Karen is fully well we mite start to go away once a month somewhere even if its just overnight..

And i am going to start & do the same with Cody just him & i overnight somewhere...

Karen said today to me she is sick of doing the same thing over & over every day for years...

So it has to change . . .

So i will be pushing myself as hard as i can to do this & it doesn't have to be far , theres some nice caravan parks around this big lake of ours & we could stay there & do something or do nothing but relax . . .

Going to start to build up our camping gear again as we sold all of it with the last landy , have some so where on our way with that..

Originally Posted by banjo

Karen is asleep on the lounge she doesn't want to goto bed just yet. Cody's on there computer & fred's in the shower . We have done the dishes nothing on the telly to watch so I's jumped on here but everyone must be off having tea or out.......

Was telling the kids once Karen is fully well we mite start to go away once a month somewhere even if its just overnight..

And i am going to start & do the same with Cody just him & i overnight somewhere...

Karen said today to me she is sick of doing the same thing over & over every day for years...

So it has to change . . .

So i will be pushing myself as hard as i can to do this & it doesn't have to be far , theres some nice caravan parks around this big lake of ours & we could stay there & do something or do nothing but relax . . .

Going to start to build up our camping gear again as we sold all of it with the last landy , have some so where on our way with that..

mate your always welcome over my way and i know heaps of out the way spots