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well i stuffed up again i came home cause i couldn't handle being away from the kids & Karen was screeming at me ..& yes i do deserve it i couldn't even leave her alone while i was away...
So she is now just my carer no more i will still be on the floor....
PS MEANZ (Vic)
your alright mate i did understand what you where saying i just can't up & get to the docs..
Will be trying now I will get Karen to make an oppointment for me tomorrow while she is down there ..
I'm not to talk to Karen at all i'm only here cause i want to be with the kids ..So who's up for some texts so i don't start to talk to Karen ...I dont want to hurt Karen anymore.....
so i need someone to chat with throught the day actualy all the time......just text me for a chat guys if you dont have my number ask one of the guys here they know who can have it probably more than i do...
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Originally Posted by banjo
SHEESH dont all jump in at once hey...
Hey Jim dont wanna talk to you on the phone either ;),Na it good how was Karen . . . .
Ok who else here think i'm a ****wit looser & can't do a thing right at all . . .
I'm guessing quiet a few as i haven't heard from many of use of late . . could be just me though ..
Jason,
Don't be so hard on yourself, you are not a bad person and i don't believe you are responsible for all Karen's problems. Don't tell Karen to sell your stuff, it belongs to you. You have a right to keep in contact with your kids, so don't let Karen deny you that contact. Stay in touch with your kids.
Don't let your past problems be an excuse for making your future miserable. And don't think the way to make friends is to criticise yourself - it isn't.
You do have choices, with or without Karen. You can have a perfectly happy life without her. You may not believe that, but it's true. It up to you.
Stop making yourself a doormat and start to stand up for yourself.
NOT ME :mad:Quote:
Originally Posted by banjo
Sorry I have'nt been in touch the last two days but things went frantic at work the moment I walked in the door Wed morning :eek2:
Mate if being with the kids makes you happy then you'll just have to put up and shut up - literally! But it's all for a good cause. ;)
i dont have your number i would like having it,i have been talking to my girlfriend for the last 3 hrs so abit busy
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Originally Posted by DiscoMick
Hey Mick yeah i'm back home cause i couldn't handle being away from the kids & Karen...
Yes i'm responsable for all Karens problems even Karen tells me that..
I just live here now so i can be around the kids ..
I will allways live in hope that Karen & i will work it out..I DIDN'T MEEN TO DO ANY OF THE STUFF I DID TO KAREN NOR DID I DELIBERATLY DO ANY OF IT..
Couldn't even help with tea tonight so i spose i wont be doing anything here just be around the kids ..
Karen was on the phone to my mum as i left her place & Karen didn't want me home at all & was worried i would wreck Cody's birthday as they are going out to lonestar..
I will be staying home because i don't want to give them any trouble if i was to get nervous & that would stuff it up so i'll just wait till they come home & ask him if he had a good time & enjoyed himself..
Actualy i would be quiet nervouse to go with them ..
i do choose to be here & i realy do want & love Karen so i will always live in hope..
My stuff wont be sold while i'm here but if i do have to go again well there best off to sell them as i have nowhere for them or anyway of moving them & i would loose them to my stepfather anyway..
I'm trying to move forward from my past & i hope Karen is in my future & i hope she can leave the past in the past..
ME not a bad person I haven't heard that before..
Yeah i am a bad person even if it was only to Karen she is the only person i have ever stood upto ..
If one of use where to ring me & abuse me i would just cower in a corner & do what ever use told me to do..
I'm actualy glad i'm not at mums at the moment cause its all the younger kids birthdays theres about 4 or 5 in just as many days.. & if i was still there i would see my oldman because he visits all my sisters & would jump at the chance to get his hooks into me over the weekend while he was up there..
Just because Karen tells you you're responsible for all her problems doesn't necessarily mean its true. Who can say? We all make decisions that affect us.
The best thing you can do is to stop being a doormat and bagging yourself to try to make them like you. The more you criticise yourself, the less likely they are to think positively about you. Stand up and be loving but don't be annoying.
Somewhere inside you is the real you, who is not a bad person, but is actually a good person. Let him out...