Thread: Embarrassment

My biggest problem at the moment is bordom I hate doing nothing .
I have to make some new lenses for me sunnies today, My eyes are very sensative to the sunlight & i get realy bad headaches if i go outside with out them on, the optomatrist did tell me what its called but i can't remember.
So i have to get the darkest lenses i can find but they always coe in those huge horible frames so i have to cut & file them down to fit my frames..

Hey seen a beuty series 3 SWB on ebay just round the corner at hillsbourgh i think it was buy it now for $1200 ..

Originally Posted by banjo

..IT HAS BEEN QUIET AWHILE SINCE I HAVE HAD ONE THAT BIG

Banjo, my 2c worth which I'm sure you already know

My Mrs as you know, has had the same thing for 20 odd years although right now she's the best she's been in say 5 years.

One of the big probs she has with coping/dealing/overcoming this thing is remembering "THE BIG ONE" that happened in the past. Yeah, it might have happened in the past but that was the past. You're older, wiser, have better developed coping strategies, etc. Easy for me to say but the past is the past, you have to to be fatalistic and say if it happens in the future I'll deal with it. I guess what I'm trying to say in my (as usual) poor way is put the past where it belongs, in the past, and keep pushing yourself forward. Anxiety and panic attacks won't kill you (although you may think so at the time)

but I know you know this, etc....

I should also say I follow this thread and am always reluctant to comment as when I do it sounds so bloody negative (to me).

Originally Posted by WhiteD3

I should also say I follow this thread and am always reluctant to comment as when I do it sounds so bloody negative (to me).

No i we never think its negative as you are living the same thing threw the same prospective as Karen & she tells me the same thing & the guys here remind me everynow & then that it is in the past, & i am sure you tell your wife the same as you say to me..
Our problem is just that it is in the past & we remember the big one & are scared of the next one as we know what will happen..
I cant emagine what it would be like for your wife to go through to be a woman a mother & to be going through this stuff would be so hard for her.
I think that came out wrong.

G'Day Banj, I am really happy that you look forward to my visits and I consider it an honour to take old Tom's place!!! don't know about the "old" though!!!. Mrs Aus didn't go to Cardiff Woolies today ( surprise, surprise) she helped me clean the lawn locker out, you should see the stuff we have thrown out, we even found and X-Ray taken in 1980 of the eldest daughter, it went out, don't think its relevant anymore!!

Originally Posted by Ausfree

G'Day Banj, I am really happy that you look forward to my visits and I consider it an honour to take old Tom's place!!! don't know about the "old" though!!!. Mrs Aus didn't go to Cardiff Woolies today ( surprise, surprise) she helped me clean the lawn locker out, you should see the stuff we have thrown out, we even found and X-Ray taken in 1980 of the eldest daughter, it went out, don't think its relevant anymore!!

I always keep old X-rays, even from before then. See if later Doctors do find something odd, they can look at the old X-rays to compare & determine that it was not always that way, that is what showed up now was not always there in the past so is a recent growth.

for example, very old X-rays of my knee do show a spur of bone. One doctor was talking of operating to remove it, but I produced old X-rays to show it had been there for a long time, so that it was not the cause of the trouble I was having.

So that's why old X-rays should be kept.

Hi Jason, keep your chin up. Ignore those emails, Johnf.