Ian, I'm not denying either your experience behind the wheel, nor that young folks display some pretty appalling driving. Including friends of mine, people who I flat out will not be in a car with.
I'm also aware that there are plenty of people in my life with far more experience than I, at pretty much everything.
I can accept that and I don't need to argue that my 4 years of driving makes me god behind the wheel, because I know it's not true.
I've read your latest thread, and that's exactly why I don't take stupid risks, because it's not just me that it effects.
I frequently travel long distances with my girlfriend with me in the car, and I know I'd never forgive myself if something happened to her.
I think it's unfair to write all young people (particularly males) off as being arrogant, know it all drivers, but I'm also aware that plenty of us are.
Let's not sugarcoat it though, appalling driving isn't limited to young people, and there are plenty of older people I know who are just as bad, in that because they're older and because they've been driving for xyz years, they couldn't
possibly be wrong, and some young upstart couldn't
possibly know
anything about driving, so it's okay to talk down to them.
But as you say, sometimes you need to shut up and listen.
If what you're listening to is downright dangerous and tells you not to get in a car with this person, so be it

Cheers
Muppet
EDIT: There's also a difference between questioning your elders and being genuinely curious about something. Simply accepting what someone says on face value and being told not to question them simply because they know better is also dangerous and a load of **** IMHO*
*not an attack on you Ian, or anyone. Just saying...
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