Land rover is quite clear that an equalising or other forms of WDH should not be used with a D4 when towing. The air suspension is designed to take care of the load and i would guess the computer would get pretty confuced with a WDH fitted.
 
They do say you need to take into account the total weight on the rear axel, which includes passenges and luggage in the back. This would obviously affect the ride if you have a few hundred kg's on the towbar and a fully ladden boot space. 
 
This is how land rover recommends checking the weight over the front wheels for safe driving when towing heavy loads. Once you have done this once with your van or boat everything should be fine
 
Vehicle weights
When loading a vehicle to its maximum (GVW),
take account of the load distribution to ensure
that axle loads do not exceed the permitted
maximum values. It is your responsibility to
limit the vehicle load in such a way that neither
the maximum axle loads nor the GVW are
exceeded. The most accurate method of
determining load distribution is by using a
public weighbridge.
Nose weight must be the greater of 50 kg
(110 lb) or 7% of the actual trailer laden
weight, up to the maximum tow hitch load.
Nose weight can be measured using a
proprietary brand of nose weight indicator.
 
Plus 
 
If the vehicle is loaded to the Gross Vehicle Weight (GVW), the nose weight
is limited to 150 kg (330 lb). If a trailer with over-run brakes is used the
nose weight can be increased up to 250 kg (550 lb) total nose weight.
 
However, vehicle payload 
must be restricted by at least the same weight to
 
ensure that the GVW and rear axle weights are not exceeded. See
 
TECHNICAL SPECIFICATIONS (page 263).
				
			
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