Embarrassment

Seems to me you've got plenty of reasons & excuses why you CAN'T ...

... and not one good reason why can or should. :mad:

You're digging yourself a hole mate. Take Jims advice and DO something, and stop giving us all the excuses under the sun why you CAN'T !

If you're going back to mums ... you're going back to mums. YOU can let them intimidate you ... or YOU can just say NO **** OFF !! ... go about YOUR business and be your own person.

YOU are your own person and it's about time you stand up for yourself ... it'll be YOU who lets them take advantage of YOU ... NOT them!

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Why are you talking about going back to your mum's?
Why are you pushing Karen to make commitments she's obviously not ready to make?
Why are you imagining all the worst possible things that could go wrong?
Stop pushing, mate. And ring a counsellor and have a good long talk.

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Originally Posted by DiscoMick

Why are you talking about going back to your mum's?
Why are you pushing Karen to make commitments she's obviously not ready to make?
Why are you imagining all the worst possible things that could go wrong?
Stop pushing, mate. And ring a counsellor and have a good long talk.

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Because thats about the only option unless i just go to the oldmans . . .

Honestly didn't meen to just thought it mite be easier . . . .

I have to get used to it & prepair myself just incase it does happen . . .

I will think about it i have only ever spoke to Karen for the last 23 years & i don't trust them . . .

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Originally Posted by banjo

Because thats about the only option unless i just go to the oldmans . . .

Honestly didn't meen to just thought it mite be easier . . . .

I have to get used to it & prepair myself just incase it does happen . . .

I will think about it i have only ever spoke to Karen for the last 23 years & i don't trust them . . .

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Banjo, this is what I meant yesterday when I said cross your bridges as you come to them. You are still at the family home today, so focus on the family and stop pressuring Kaz, I know how hard that is to do, but mate, at the moment you are pushing her away.

[QUOTE=V8Ian;1323523]Banjo, this is what I meant yesterday when I said cross your bridges as you come to them. You are still at the family home today, so focus on the family and stop pressuring Kaz, I know how hard that is to do, but mate, at the moment you are pushing her away.[/QUOTE]


Thats what Karen said..

Mate she needs some time to sort her head, give her that time while you're demonstrating that you're getting your head together, and how much you love her.

BAHAHAHAHA
Its funny use tell me to be posotive Karen tells me to not talk like its laready over.. So i talk about the future & things we could do together or as a family just in general chat...:confused:

Then Karen tells me to stop talking as if everything is going to be alright because i mite not want this anymore .. . .:confused:


So from now on i am just going to shut the **** up & if Karen & i are able to work through this then great use will hear about real fast . . .
If not i will be at mums & i shall say see yas & thanks for everything .. . . :eek:

I owe use so much the same as i owe Karen nearly so i thankyou all. . . .

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Originally Posted by banjo

BAHAHAHAHA
Its funny use tell me to be posotive Karen tells me to not talk like its laready over.. So i talk about the future & things we could do together or as a family just in general chat...:confused:

Then Karen tells me to stop talking as if everything is going to be alright because i mite not want this anymore .. . .:confused:


So from now on i am just going to shut the **** up & if Karen & i are able to work through this then great use will hear about real fast . . .
If not i will be at mums & i shall say see yas & thanks for everything .. . . :eek:

I owe use so much the same as i owe Karen nearly so i thankyou all. . . .

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Typical girl talk mate, we mere males will never be right. :p Give her time, without being negative mate. ;)

I didn't mean to upset you Banjo. Sorry if I did.
Just trying to encourage you to spend more time thinking positively and less time thinking negatively.

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Originally Posted by DiscoMick

I didn't mean to upset you Banjo. Sorry if I did.
Just trying to encourage you to spend more time thinking positively and less time thinking negatively.

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I know Mick , you didn't upset me .I am thinking positively ...

I only can aford to go back to my parents unfortunatly & i wont put the kids in that .. . .