Thread: Embarrassment

Jason, twenty three years of damage will not be repaired in a week. Give Karen some room to breath, stop putting pressure on her and conduct yourself as you intend to in the future. Pressuring Karen will only turn her against you, she needs space to empty her head and put it back in order.

G'Day Banj, well my Freebie is booked into All FOUR X4 on Thursday to have the low level coolant alarm fitted. I wanted it done before we head off to the Landrover Show at Castle Hill, we are going to meet at the Twin Servo's on the F3 and then convoy down to Sydney. Looks like about 5 or 6 LandRovers might be in the convoy. Should be a good day, I am looking forward to it, particularly meeting other Forum members.!!!!

Originally Posted by JohnF

there may be a lot more people out there praying for you than you ever realise. I for one am praying for you.

and should have added am also praying for Karen.

well guys if use see a site or know of anywhere i can get a cheap car fridge/freezer please post it up or pm me if you know someone with one cheap as i do need one .Karen is seriously sure its over & i need one ....I dodn't have a great deal of money so around the $300 would be good if any of use know of one or site i should look at post them up & i will check them out.....





Thanks Jason...





PS Karen went to the gym today & picked up the forms to join & do the direct debit so she is filling them out tonight & taking them back in the morning ..She called into the tattoo shop aswell & is booked in for first thing friday morning at 10. she is getting it on her belly now just above her belly button......

Karen tells me i am still up in her face & she feels i am still pushing her ..I do not meen to i just want to talk to her , she is all i have had to talk to for 23 years & i love talking to her. . When i wake her up i talk to her & when i put her to bed i talk to her & just in general i talk to her . ..

So i guess i realy am a ****up to her & more trouble than i'm worth & i still manage to **** her off ....

I miss having her to talk to about anything & everything. . . .

I still cant open myself up to tell all use everything that has happend to me or what i go through as it is very hard to talk about, but with Karen it is differant . . ...

I am trying my guts out to proove to Karen that i wont let her down & that she can trust me to keep at this..I will slow down once everything is ok if it works out as Karen hates that i am doing everything..The only thing Karen has asked me to do is help out a bit by picking up my smokes occationaly & if she forgets something say grab your bag i will run you down or even just go myself if i can & get the papers sometimes when she is out so she doesn't have to hurry or worry about them.& when posable maybe do something for myself...BUT i have to give her her space & i seem to **** that up bigtime..& i have to amuse myself more so that Karen doesn't feel she needs to be at home with me ........So she hasn't realy asked much of me concidering what she has done for me......& she needs to do somethings on her own with out me or the kids..& she doesn't have to worry about me at home , & i have been trying to get her to not worry about me at home anymore ..I do have lots that can be done here its just not having the shed to work in anymore & thats playing bigtime on both of us as i used to spend lots of time in the shed on my own & Karen could just sit & watch a movie if she wanted....BUT here that doesn't happen....

Hey what do you know i can do things...Was about to start tea but there was no tomato paste for me mince so off i goes to aldi got that some bread & even some garlic & back all on my own..So i spose i should get it going now...

Just give her space. Give her time and she will come to you, which is what you want, but if you push her she will back off.
You're doing well. Keep being positive.
You need a shed!

Jas,you can text or call if you want to mate