Thread: Embarrassment

Originally Posted by Landy Smurf

I have the option of buying a defender it is a 1996 300tdi 110 station wagon. 196xxxKms and an engine rebuild 55xxxkms ago due to it over heating. I have talked him down well sort of to $12500, looks tidy just dont know if I want to spend all my money on a vehicle. It does seem like a good buy though

This one is a 90 but it has everything on it BUT it is petrol & id say its be ONO

http://www.aulro.com/afvb/vehicles-s...fied-90-a.html

Ok so I need some help, your help may or may not make my decision but I am really confused and a few friends on facebook are saying different things to me.
I am not saying everything I did was right, but when feelings get involved sometimes decision making is hard.
Ok so as you know cornelia and I broke up in march and most of you know the circumstances in which things happened.
We had a joint account and I worked it out that in that joint account she had $5000.
Originally she said she didn’t want any because she didn’t deserve it or something after what she put me through.(not really an important point).
I gave her $2000 of the $5000. Those of you who not so great at maths that means I owe her $3000.
My flights cost $2500 and she said she wanted to pay for them after I gave her some money.
I think she should have, because I missed out on uni and was a wreck for a long time where she wasn’t.
That leaves $500 which I was going to use to send her things back to her.
She wants me to send everything of hers back.
I am ok with sending her things back to her. To send everything back to her will cost $1500. I would sooner fly over there and drop off her things to her and pick up a few things of mine and have a holiday.
We barely speak now probably for the last 3 months it has been just when are you sending things etc. Well she has called me many names etc.
One of my friends thinks I should just send all her stuff so she is out of my life etc.
Another thinks try and discussing things with her about how much it will cost
She is supposed to be going to Tasmania for exchange in February so I have suggested sending things to her down there. Most of the things she will just throw out anyway. A lot of clothes and books she has read and won’t read again and was only cheap anyway. And old clothe she rarely wore the whole time we were together.
I probably have left out a few details. But I am really confused about what to do and any opinions would be appreciated even if they are saying I am an idiot do this.