Thread: Embarrassment

Originally Posted by Stuuu

Deal with it how you think best mate but we are here if you need to get a bit of support now and then.

Be thinking of you both.

I have know idea as to what is the best way . . Its just hard enough to get Karen to talk to me . . .

Originally Posted by banjo

I have know idea as to what is the best way . . Its just hard enough to get Karen to talk to me . . .

Some people like to natter along all the time - others keep their mouth shut and think about it and then give you an answer later.

If Karen likes to think about things that's what she's doing and so she needs time and a bit of space.

It's hard for you but you will need to let her talk when she wants to. Rushing her is not going to help and will probably make things worse.

Still show her you love her by doing what you are but let her have her space to think if she needs it.

Wish the best for you and Karen..stay safe and do youre best Jason..we will talk/see you soon I am sure

Mrs hh

Well, thats it then, a lot of sorting out to do with Jason and Karen I reckon, I, like everybody else on this tread wish them all the best and as I only live ten minutes from them, will be calling in on them every now and again, to see how things are going without being too nosey!!! Its for them to sort out and we can only watch on the sidelines and hope for the best!!!

I think this is very apt Jason.

Bear Attack in Churchill, Manitoba, Canada..

These are pictures of an actual polar bear attack.

The pictures were taken while people watched and
Could do nothing to stop the attack!

Reports from the local newspaper say that
The victim will make a full recovery.


The photos are below.


















May your troubles always be smaller than
you imagine!!

Well i'm still here guys, wish i wasn't to a degree....It feels like Karen has had an afair with next door & says well i'm still going there for a cuppa or something like that....Still worried about tuesday just in case this bloke says something & it mite be the right thing at the right time......We still don't have made to much progress although i realy did enjoy going out all last week it was fun..not doing to much over the next couple of days as we have the pamphlets to do so don't need to go out realy although i will for something just to keep it up..Sorry if the spelling is real bad i have know idea where my head is.. STill very lost at the moment not sure what to say or do ......I have never been so frightend in my intire life as i am now......

Not real Banjo, not real.
Reality is you had a good week, you're still together, you're healthy etc.
Focus on what's real now, and how to make it better. You can do it - we're all behind you and you're not alone.

Originally Posted by DiscoMick

Not real Banjo, not real.
Reality is you had a good week, you're still together, you're healthy etc.
Focus on what's real now, and how to make it better. You can do it - we're all behind you and you're not alone.

Yeah, I agree, you had a good week, that is a realty, I always think of that old saying about a half full glass.
A pessimist says it is half empty.
An opptomist says it is half full.
Banjo, you seem to dwell on the dark side an you are conjuring up future situations that may or may not exist. Life is tough enough dealing with realty without dealing with an imagined bad situation that has not occurred.
You are going through a bad time at the moment, time for a deep breath mate and focus on the good things. We all have our down moments (boy, tell me about that one) and I would suggest you go back and reread my original posting on this thread to see what I have been through.
Now, I am not trying to make myself out as some sort of hero, all I am trying to do is trying to get you to get a grip on what is real and what is imagined. As you can see, other people go through bad times too and everybody handles it differently.


BANJO, YOU HAVE HAD A GOOD WEEK THAT IS A REALTY!!!!!