Good questions:
Noise: Subjective, but we can agree that there is a good chance if it sounds quieter it likely is, so no big issue there. Except for a single question - Why is it quieter? Thicker oil? Better shear performance - a tight tolerance engine shouldn't rattle if the correct spec lubricant is used.
Temperature: Measured where? Using the normalised temperature gauge? Certainly not very scientific! Considering a functioning cooling system should sustain engine temp regardless of the changes made by running varying oil of 'similar' spec.
Consumption: Oil or Fuel? Fuel consumption increase can indicate drag from the oil. Change in driving habits, change in vehicle configuration, ambient operating temperature or journey style changes. Too easy to have variability.
Oil consumption can indicate worn engine, incorrect oil or other issues. I've not owned a vehicle that chewed oil in 20 years...
I would expect a properly bedded in Tdci to not be consuming oil in any noticeable volume.
EGT: Only indicative of the A/F ratio and load the engine is under.
and then your closing comment:
Friction: Heres one you can not easily answer without oil analysis. Are the bearings being worn away? Piston rings? Bores? How would you know?
Oil analysis is how. Yes, eventually the engine will wear - but how soon? This is why oil analysis is done, to enable reliability engineers and condition monitoring specialists to predict when, what, why and how something is wearing.
They look for the signs of wear early - and an increase in an element is usually indicative to wear inside the engine (gearbox, transmission, hydraulic system etc).
These suck it and see, she'll be right because I service it and it sounds quieter posts gain nothing, and demonstrate nothing. Its highly likely most people will move the vehicle on before the wear is even starting to become an issue.
Claiming that "Oil analysis is not necessary if you follow OEM (oil and engine and other systems) maintenance schedules. Oil will be fine."
Is a HUGELY naive claim
Sealed for Life ZF transmissions are a prime example where this is not the case.
Another flaw in the statement is you are not using the OEM specified oil, that the manufacturer tested the design with and approved.
And there I was thinking that these reliability guys were onto something, when all it needs to do is "sound quieter, and run the same temp" 
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