Yes, this is no joke... I may have mentioned it before on here, so forgive the early onset of dementia if so :)
in an area of just 20km2 I have heard dozens of stories already regarding capacity. 
- My little brother has bought a house last year and intended to get rid of the gas heater but after much debate he was not able to upgrade his 1x25A connection to more than 3x25A, effectively only going from a single phase to 3 phase. 3x35A (which would be needed for an instant hot water unit) was just not going to happen.
- A mate of mine has a kid that plays soccer, he sees other parents regularly and one of them got a new EV since the company forced it on him basically. He noticed he was charging his car on the electric charger in de parking lot of the sport complex. When asked why "I get bumped into being a business user/account by the power company if I use more than 17000kw per anum and that costs so much that it is cheaper to charge here"
- That same mate works at a government owned and operated sewage treatment plant and they recently installed 2.7megawatt's of solar in a disused field. The power company has already told them that they are limited to 1.7 since they can't handle it. Since the power company can operate the inverters (switching banks off, which is a requirement with large installations) they can't even use the surplus power to charge their EV's
- My car mechanic just moved places and the new location has 50kw of solar on the roof, from a time that nobody looked at what they were doing. In order to facilitate the large currents that he can put back into the grid he has a 3x80A connection which costs a fortune. We were looking into lowering the connection to the grid and switching the solar to batteries instead. He has already been warned that he CAN downgrade, but won't be able/allowed to upgrade back "ever" (ie. foreseeable future).
- And to top it all off, a combination of the two above; a local school (so that is again public money) spend a fortune to fill their roofs with solar, stupidly/naively thinking that they were doing "the right thing" and when time came to hook it up the power company simply said: we don't have the excess capacity in the grid for this, at all, you can not switch it on. This means that the investment is rotting away, there is no solar power to charge their EV's with AND since they could not get the larger hook up to the grid the EV chargers they installed can't even be used since that would blow the mains to the entire school.
These are all stories from people that I know first hand and I have even worked on the electrical setup of half of them, not hearsay. This entire fiasco is beginning to look like a very VERY expensive pink elephant...
Then again, I broke my foot (yeah I know, dumb :P) and my bookkeeper took my out for dinner in his EV renault thingy. As a passenger I am ok with them ;)
Cheers,
-P