Embarrassment

Mrs banjo (fatty) · 23rd February 2010, 07:21 PM

Yep got it in one he has no confidence in himself what so ever.everything he does isn't good enough just look at his car he thinks its crap .he doesnt know how to except a compliment,you give him one & he says na its crap,everything has to be perfect.He does have a grip on it its just every now and then he has a tizzy usually only last a couple of hours at most & usually not bad at all, I think it might be because he is finally getting it off his chest for once instead of telling me all the time , he hasnt even began to scratch the surface of his life but i doubt he will tell you all everything but he will tell you some ,he has spoke to me about telling you some more .The first was when his granfather died,The second was when his grandmother died & now today the third.. he is just like most parents where there kids are concerned..This is probably the third time in 22 years that i have seen him this low, i didnt even know he posted it today for awhile, i was out he usually tells me but must of felt comfortable with you all as he told you before me thats a huge step guys he doesnt tell anybody..most of the time he controls it & we go about our stuff as usual the kids & i ,i mean & sometimes he does to..
Well we are going to look at a house tomorrow afternoon its a 4 bedroom place but it doesn't have a garage so i can see him saying no before we even get inside..

**Sleepy** · 23rd February 2010, 09:14 PM

Hey Jas,
Just got in from work. What is the first thing I did?

(Poured a scotch and coke)

OK,OK,...what is the second thing I did...

Logged on to see how Jason is. I thought I confused you last night with my waffle...I was a bit crapola too.

The thing is, mate, we won't always understand each other - (especially after my third scotch!). That is the thing about relationships. Its a bit of a bumpy ride. I am sure you and Fatty arent always on great terms (although it would be hard to not love her for long!

)

Its like that with friends too. You say shid you dont mean or stuff gets taken the wrong way. Doesn't mean things are bad it just means you gotta talk more.

You may not feel like posting for a while - thats ok too. But when you are ready - we will be too. And it might not be me, or ausfree or fatty or lardy, or all the others here it might be someone new to this thread. We all care about you mate.
I've got a good friend I've known since 1976. We dont see each other as much nowadays but when we do its like it always was. Friends!

We wont judge you mate....we're just here to talk....about whatever you like....remember there is no EMBARRASSMENT here.

I wish I had something I could say to make you feel better.

Its ok to be sad Jason.

Go and give fatty a cuddle....Ive got a sneaking suspicion she has the hots for you!

Your friend

Sleepy

**banjo** · 23rd February 2010, 09:48 PM

thanks for setting my mind at rest (as much as can be) at least you drink a decent drop we drink that occasionally we not big drinkers fatty only needs half a glass a bottle lasts 2 years or more lol can you tell fatty typed this .We just found a REAL nice flat right next to bi-lo over the pawn brokers big 3 bdrm carport only we think so have to look into it cause we won't be building any more cars or tinkering being a flat least he might come grocery shopping maybe but he would probably ****** about the walk NEXT DOOR lol.Have 2 other houses to look at tomorrow will let you know how we go fingers crossed.

**banjo** · 23rd February 2010, 09:51 PM

this is the flat what do you think...

In The Heart Of Cardiff - Fred Andriessen

**Sleepy** · 23rd February 2010, 10:00 PM

That looks like a nice place - Clean too. The bathroom is a bit weird colour scheme but also looks nice and clean - which is the important thing.

Good luck

You have mail!!!

**banjo** · 23rd February 2010, 10:06 PM

Originally Posted by Sleepy

That looks like a nice place - Clean too. The bathroom is a bit weird colour scheme but also looks nice and clean - which is the important thing.

Good luck

You have mail!!!

I know the bathroom vanity its a bit of a shocker we could get used to it but jas said when i get in the shower it will all look good

**banjo** · 23rd February 2010, 10:09 PM

Night all we off to bed to sleep nothing else thats it really (maybe)

**Sleepy** · 23rd February 2010, 10:17 PM

**banjo** · 23rd February 2010, 10:17 PM

You guys crack us up its good we need to laugh a bit more..

**Sleepy** · 23rd February 2010, 10:21 PM

Originally Posted by banjo

we need to laugh a bit more..

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