Thread: Embarrassment

Originally Posted by banjo

Well i was talking to Karen this morning & she was saying that no one from here has been in touch with her use all are our friends not just mine.So Please give her a text or a ring use all have her numbers home & mobile..



Do use want to know what i was talking to her about ???????

To bad use are gunna hear any way ..


I got in touch with BEYOND BLUE mental health to see what they could offer in the way of help ..

Well they run a program of self help courses but they dont have anything where i am at the moment as yet..BUT they do run a courses at Charlstown which is not far from home ..I have to have a phone asessment first & some email contact with the organizer lady so she can work out the best way to help & was told not to rush things or i would be in for a big let down if i tried to do that...The course is also for carers aswell to help them better manage there support....

I have emailed the organizer lady linda someone for my phone asessment but have been told i mite not hear till early next week as she is very busy..

I have also downloaded some info on selfhelp & advise ..I havent read it yet..

Karen said to ring life line but they are for suicide not anxiety .. But i am looking for a counsiler for the phone for the time being..

I am trying to find where i can get some more info sent out to me about some DVDs for the selfhelp i looked at one of the links Ferret put up & they had some DVDs but where very exspensive... i thought i mite of been able to get some free or even some books or reading matierial on the self help as this seems to be the best place to start & i have all the time in the world to read....
Apparently a lot of people who have read & or watched the matierial has helped them a lot to the piont they go out lots now & these things have ways to help yourself manage the panic attacks with breathing & mind exersizes to build up yourself ...

So if anyone of use know of books or anything yell out as i want to do some reading on it ..

Oh & i guess outside of Karen i will be puting use down as my support as i was told i will need the help & support of family & friends so i guess thats Karen & use..

Also while looking the mob Micayle seen & that Karen is now seeing came up as a speicalist in this field but i need a referal from my doctors to go there & i will have to go on a plan thing for the free treatment & i have to pay $50 on the first visit.. But i cant just jump in the car & do that down there just yet.. But i will be eventualy . . . I only get 6 visits on the plan thing but i can get another referal if needed..

Jason.
Best post you have made in weeks.
I hope you do follow thru and get some help.
GOODLUCK
Andrew

Originally Posted by banjo

I got in touch with BEYOND BLUE mental health to see what they could offer in the way of help ..

Well they run a program of self help courses but they dont have anything where i am at the moment as yet..BUT they do run a courses at Charlstown which is not far from home ..I have to have a phone asessment first & some email contact with the organizer lady so she can work out the best way to help & was told not to rush things or i would be in for a big let down if i tried to do that...The course is also for carers aswell to help them better manage there support....

I have emailed the organizer lady linda someone for my phone asessment but have been told i mite not hear till early next week as she is very busy..

Please let us know when you get the call Jason.

Originally Posted by Stuuu

Please let us know when you get the call Jason.

Well i havent been able to send emails up untill now so it will be later & i dont think i fill the requirements for it from the site ...


BUT for something better i am getting professional help instead from a shrink that specialises in this feild ..
KAREN is getting me a referal this thursday while she is at the doctors for her blood test & she is seeing them on the same day so will be making me an appointment to see them while she sees them to..

I can go home to get the help & we will see what happen with Karen & i then I will be going into the back room (Freds) & she will jump in with Karen while we see how things go....I am a little worried being there for this as i do love Karen & i do want a relasionship with Karen & she isnt prepaid to do that the moment....

I will do what ever it takes for Karen I MEAN THAT SO this is what it will be for the moment..


The whole time i have been here i have texted Karen for someone to talk to as she has been my mate for so long & its pushing her further away so as of now as i sent Karen an email with some info i got off lifeline for her to read so texted her to let her know as Karen doesn't check the emails ..So as of now i wont be texting or ringing Karen at all so that she does have the space & time with out me in anyway...

This will be my last post till thursday as my net is just about up so use will have to text me for a chat..

And why has no one been in touch with Karen eigther as use are friends of us both & Karen is the same as me we dont have friends ..She wont bite & would probably enjoy hearing from use as well...

So untill thursday take care & cross your fingers for me & Karen that i will leave her alone & she mite even miss me & posably like me to come home..

this is what i sent to Karen for a read..if it work ..

http://www.lifeline.org.au/ArticleDo...olkit.pdf.aspx

http://www.lifeline.org.au/ArticleDo...tacks.pdf.aspx


Hope it works use mite like to look..

Looks like you've started to get things back on track.

Good on ya!!

Originally Posted by Quarks

Looks like you've started to get things back on track.

Good on ya!!

Yeah but it looks like all that has been shot to **** today..
Karen was telling me she is still fighting to stay away from the tattoo shop again..When she got her last tattoo she said there where no feelings there & that she was fighting to stay away but now she is sometimes..

Originally Posted by banjo

Yeah but it looks like all that has been shot to **** today..
Karen was telling me she is still fighting to stay away from the tattoo shop again..When she got her last tattoo she said there where no feelings there & that she was fighting to stay away but now she is sometimes..

Mate another "what if".

The "what ir's" do not help anyone.

The important points are she does want to stay away and she is staying away.