I don't think that you can prepare anyone for an event as you have described. If you could prepare them what sort of person might they become? The best you can do is to be supportive and help them to realise that it's not their fault. 
Thinking of you and wishing for the best.
Regards,
Tote
				
			 
			
		 
			
				
			
			
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